How ‘Pro-Choice’ is pro-choise for Men?

Namaste,

LADIES, LADIES, LADIES!!

Stop going all Tanasha Donna on men out here with your wombs.

These is no assurity of financial stability for you by getting pregnant for a man. I am so disappointed in us for not educating us.

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How quick are we to term a man as a ‘deadbeat father’? Check the facts first

Before you get pregnant, maybe try buying a couch or contributing towards that floor carpet you been pressuring your ‘boyfriend’ to buy for the ‘two of you’

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Before I indulge into today’s controversy, a friend of mine was diagnosed with corona virus. He is getting better and has urged us all to stay at home and stay safe. I am waiting on him to share his story as soon as he recovers so check out uncensoredhorizontalexchange.wordpress.com and wait to read on the first-hand experience of this great pandemic.

Onto today’s controversy. Should a man be forced into fatherhood when they do not want to be?

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Up until recently, reproductive choice has always been seen as a woman’s choice, pro-life or pro-choice. But really, it takes two create a life and it’s not fair that men are sidelined when this choice is made.

If we want men to be responsible, isn’t it just fair that they get the same right to choose?

It may seem like a stunt, but calling into attention double standards and unintended consequences, please men, campaign for your rights, take to the streets if you have to ( okay wait till Corona decides enough is enough) then you can decide that enough is enough for you too.

So it is okay for a woman to take to court a deadbeat father and force him into a responsibility, one that you probably never asked him if he wanted.

The bigger question comes, do men also have also have rights to control their reproductive lives and financial futures as women do?

Introduction of contraceptives and for some countries, legal abortion has greatly helped women in knowing when to separate intimacy and procreation. Women empowerment Yeey!  What’s there for men then, if not total abstinence?

In other countries, women even have a way of evading financial abortion, give birth and not take home. No judgment. No shame. No blame. No name. This is good. At least they now don’t get to hear stories of babies left in trash cans or dumbed in toilet pits. HEY KENYA, see what other countries are doing for babies.

‘I am pregnant, and it’s okay if you won’t take responsibility for the child I will raise it on my own’ BIG SCAM!!, for most that is, men do not fall for this statement, because in the eyes of the child and the world you will always be a deadbeat and bad father.

Here is another big question, if men can sever their financial ties to a child, what becomes of the child? If she wants and he doesn’t, what to do?

Men too should have some right, some choice. Which one though, because there is also the, ‘my body my choice’ with women. Keeping in mind it is my body with someone else’s sperms in you, shouldn’t they get to choose too?

This is a controversial topic so, your opinion counts.